When you’ll do anything to get your kid to nap:
You know how some people can lift heavy weights, some can count cards and some people can predict the future… well I can’t do any of those things. But I do have the uncanny ability to take people, places and things and make movie and TV references based on each situation.
My best superpower is being able to match a person with their famous twin (doppelgänger). I’m almost always on point; I do strike out once and while… we all do… but as the great poet Wayne Gretzky once said, “You always miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.”
This one, this particular comparison, is a slam dunk (yes I made a hockey and basketball reference not even one sentence apart). But… this one was easy… Oliver… he is WallyKazam… and it’s not even debatable.
In what can only be called a crazy turn of events long time educator and still relatively new school administrator Peter Fragola was charged with daddy daycare duty on the morning of Tuesday, September 19, 2017. With current and raining babysitting MVP Bammy on the disabled list and back up second string babysitter Pop-Pop also being unable to take part in Tuesday’s action due to injuries sustained being a grandfather Peter was called up from the minors
In what could be One of the most controversial, yet exciting September call ups in recent history. With the team trailing late last night and all options being considered, including possible retired Manny, up-and-coming babysitters, and even distant family members who’s travel expenses would far outweigh their salary. With nowhere to turn and limited options to choose from (limited meaning none) there was no other choice but to call on this energetic, yet inexperienced talent to care for Baby Ollie for the day.
A call up of this magnitude is usually not made at such an important time. With an eight-month-old who refuses to drink from a bottle and has yet to nap more than 10 minutes at a time i’m sure having someone with the ability to feed the baby and get him to sleep would have been more preferable. But again with nowhere to turn the team as a trusted Peter with a daunting task.
A Quick look up Peter’s stats show a relatively successful and injury free infant period for younger brother Jackson. However Jackson a relatively easy child could take down a bottle no matter who was holding it and to this day can fall sleep anywhere his head hits. And that was years ago… Coming in for a job like this is not like riding a bike that you can just pick up a where you left off. The subtle nuances of the midday shush, hold, cradle and rock, the extremely specific angle at which the bottle is held all need to be figured out and figured out quickly. Yes, he’s done nighttime and morning time duties, but a last minute daytime event like this calls for concentration and confidence.
The time to study and ask questions had passed… but panic… nope… this guy stepped up to the plate with the confidence of a three time MVP. And you know what just like any future hall of famer the results spoke for themselves. There was nothing that could stop the performance of a life time.
- Bottle for the kid who doesn’t drink from a bottle? ✅
- Nap for the kid who doesn’t nap? ✅
- Cook, clean and still have enough time to watch Harry Potter together? ✅
… I guess you can say #SuperDad saved the day again…
It’s unreal how fast time goes by. It’s also extremely funny how life constantly repeats itself, or at least come full circle. As an educator for almost 20 years I’ve been involved in my fair share of home work controversies. Either too much, or too little… not clear enough directions or not enough time to complete. As an elementary schiol principal I see how some homework policies of the past are outdated and as a parent I see how there is a need for more clarity around what is expected from the children and what is expected from the parents.
Homework these days is a controversial topic. It’s like politics, no matter the side you’re on, you vehemently disagree with the other. As an educator I have read pages of research, fevoeeed surveys and observed and reviewed my own teachers’ homework expectations, assignments and procedures. I believe homework should be designed to emphasize quality tasks aligned with curricular objectives, have a clear academic purpose, and be relevant and engaging to students. It shouldn’t be busy work and definitely shouldn’t be a chore for parents, or cause stress or anxiety to the students.
As a parent of child with particular strengths and areas of particular need I completely understand the why it’s so important to create assignments that allow for accommodation of varying student needs and how providing the appropriate resources is vital for student success. Homework, even for my little three year old should be differentiated, as it should be for all learners with variety and choice.
The big piece for me… something I feel is crucial to making homework an effective keening tool is the “feedback and use of the homework as an assessment of and/or for leaning. Is what my so is being asked to do going to support his goals and objectives and also support his growth and development towards mastering grade level standards as homework should be designed as means to assess on going learning.
The Roles of Parents/ Guardians has spawned conversations in educational board rooms and social media platforms for years. For ages, parents have questioned how they are supposed to balance unstructured time with their children when they work all day, go to sports practice, piano lessons and then still have hours of homework. But honestly what should the role of a parent be in the homework process. I always tell my parents at school, “let us do the heavy lifting. Let us do the teaching during the day. We want you to just enjoy your time with your child. Spend time together and love reading.” I want parents to serve as a support to students and not have to teach new skills.
As learning styles and needs vary between students, so should that of what we ask our students to do for homework. Teachers should be purposely planning their assignments including the accommodation of varying student needs and resources as well as their current academic strengths and areas of need. This includes assignments that are differentiated for all learners with variety and choice with the expectation that teachers are using homework as means to assess on going learning and that students are receiving feedback will be timely and specific.
With that in mind, I was exciting to work on Jackson’s first homework assignment/project. As the students are working on communication skills and the identification of “self” Jackson was asked to create a sign that depicts the things he likes. (I may or may not have broken a few rules and done a few parts of the project myself)… but then again he’s three… he can’t hold scissors yet let alone cut with them. I think his poster shows off his varying likes and also is a good support for him when he is communicating those likes to others. Hopefully, homework assignments in the future are as fun as this was to do!
That was until tonight. Massive clap of thunder… “dad that’s God farting.” No warning, no lead in… just dropped a God fart joke out of nowhere.
I remember being told thunder was God bowling in heaven… as for the fart theory? That’s new to me. Out of the mouths of babes.
What happens when you wake up the first day of school and you have a fever and are puking all day? You don’t go to school and lay on the couch with your best friend all day that’s what.
Poor little guy was sick all day and night. The sadness on his face as the “boosebus” drove by and he couldn’t get on 😢.
But, don’t worry we carry on. So today 9.1.17 was the First Day of School: Take 2.